A heart tormented...

When you are in a relationship and start to have problems when do you throw in the towel? Whether you are 10 years or 2 years together is there a point when there really is no sense in fighting for one another? I'm so confused, I don't know how a relationship could go so wrong. Everyday seems to be perfect and then all of a sudden your significant other who's supposed to be the love of you life says they just don't think this is what they want anymore, YOU aren't what they want anymore. There are so many emotions that go through your head and the only question seems to be "how the hell is my life going to be okay without you?" Your friends try to console you, your family does their best to keep you busy but nights are freezing even though its the middle of summer and days are gloomy even when the sun is scorching the rest of the world. Helplessness isn't just a state of mind anymore, it's become your life. Each day passes and all you are wondering is "is this really the end?" Tears continue to fall and no one is good enough to wipe them away except that one person who ultimately still holds your whole heart. All the while you're breaking in pieces every time that person looks at you and says "I have to go because I want to hold you but I just can't". Its unimaginable to try to explain what those simple words do to a person. Does the word commitment mean nothing anymore? Does commitment only come with vows or does it come from the heart whether vows are said or not? Do vows even mean commitment? What does commitment really mean? In this day and age is anything sacred anymore?
All these questions are just mine...I can't imagine what she must be feeling. I want nothing else but to take that pain from her and beat him to a pulp, but the only option I have is to listen to her cry and be strong for her and let her know that come hell or high water I'm not going anywhere. When he comes to his senses will it be too late? I don't know, I hope not. Then again, does he even deserve her? Should she just say goodbye and try to start over before she is truly crushed? How the frick did this happen. If only she knew every detail about him, would she still think he is worth crying all those tears, NO. He doesn't deserve to feel the love she has to give, it should be saved for someone who will appreciate it and NEVER tell her she isn't good enough! If they stay together will he eventually find something else that he doesn't like about her and want her to change again. If you love someone do they have to change in order for you to stay happy? I didn't think so but apparently other people seem to. Growing together and supporting each other is what couples are supposed to do, not being the same kind of people. Having differences and loving one another because of those differences is what makes a relationship so great. How could he think that she needs to be a certain way to make him happy. How could he do this to her? Why would he do this to her?

~~I know that I've been truly lucky to have found the love of my life at such a young age and I couldn't imagine things any differently. While others are going through such strife I am comforted by My ♥Love's♥ sweet promise that that'll never become us!!! Thank you for the years of undying love, comfort and support!!!